As I said in my last posting, while I am here to celebrate a friend’s birthday I have also considered this trip a personal/spiritual retreat. As with any such retreat, it has had it challenging moments. I have come face to face with myself and some habitual reactions to things that no longer work for me. I purposely have thrown myself out of my comfort zone in a number of ways in order to learn about myself and expand my ability to handle such situations in the future.
So what have I learned?
I have learned:
- the power of gratitude and how important it is to be grateful for what I have in my life.
- the importance of asking for help when I need it and allowing myself to receive
- it is important to take care of myself while I am challenging myself
- that hidden within every challenge is an opportunity for growth if I am open to it
- learning might not always come in the form that I want but will always come in the form that I need
I head home on Thursday. I look forward to applying these lesson's to my daily life.
2 comments:
Hello Bill,
Thanks for sharing such deep thoughts about yourself. I happened upon your website and eventually your blog. I admire what you do and to be honest, would like to be.. well, more like you.
I'm also located in the DC area, particularly Reston, VA. Perhaps one day I can offer you a reason to meet up. If possible, let's be in touch.
Jason,
Thanks for your message. I love hearing from people when my message resonates with them.
I think what you mean is what you want to be more like you. I am guessing what you want is to be more honest and authentic about who you are. Its taken me a lot of work and some courage to get here...and the work doesn't stop. That being said, the freedom that comes from being honest is amazing. I am no longer bound by the expectations of what others want me to be. I am me and have accepted that not everyone will like that, and that's ok.
Start by being honest with yourself, honesty with others will follow, and freedom will follow that.
Bill
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