Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Greetings once again from Puerto Vallarta – the picture to the right is of me sitting on the back terrace while the sun sets over the bay. The views are spectacular.

As I said in my last posting, while I am here to celebrate a friend’s birthday I have also considered this trip a personal/spiritual retreat. As with any such retreat, it has had it challenging moments. I have come face to face with myself and some habitual reactions to things that no longer work for me. I purposely have thrown myself out of my comfort zone in a number of ways in order to learn about myself and expand my ability to handle such situations in the future.

So what have I learned?

I have learned:

  • the power of gratitude and how important it is to be grateful for what I have in my life.
  • the importance of asking for help when I need it and allowing myself to receive
  • it is important to take care of myself while I am challenging myself
  • that hidden within every challenge is an opportunity for growth if I am open to it
  • learning might not always come in the form that I want but will always come in the form that I need

I head home on Thursday. I look forward to applying these lesson's to my daily life.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hello Bill,

Thanks for sharing such deep thoughts about yourself. I happened upon your website and eventually your blog. I admire what you do and to be honest, would like to be.. well, more like you.

I'm also located in the DC area, particularly Reston, VA. Perhaps one day I can offer you a reason to meet up. If possible, let's be in touch.

Bill Pullen, MCC said...

Jason,

Thanks for your message. I love hearing from people when my message resonates with them.

I think what you mean is what you want to be more like you. I am guessing what you want is to be more honest and authentic about who you are. Its taken me a lot of work and some courage to get here...and the work doesn't stop. That being said, the freedom that comes from being honest is amazing. I am no longer bound by the expectations of what others want me to be. I am me and have accepted that not everyone will like that, and that's ok.

Start by being honest with yourself, honesty with others will follow, and freedom will follow that.

Bill